Family visit

Last weekend was a long weekend here. George's son lives in Auckland. He came down for the weekend to see George. He came over on the Sunday afternoon and took him out for a couple of hours. George was thrilled and has been telling people all about it ever since. It meant a lot to him. The contact with family is really important for these people with Alzheimer's. At present George is still able to carry on quite a conversation (admittedly there are good days and bad days) but how long he will be able to is anybody's guess. It is important for the families too that they make the most of the time they have with the person.

I remember at George's mother's funeral someone there was in tears. George spoke to him for a long time about his problem. It was about this man's relationship with his father and how he had not bothered to be there for celebrations (e.g. special birthdays or Christmas) even though he knew his father desperately wished for him to be there. It is so sad if people are left with a feeling that they could have/should have done more. I remember that not long before my father died my son spend many days sitting watching cricket and talking to his grandfather. I know that this time meant a lot to both of them.

Live every day as it comes and make that time to show your parents that you care. Surprise them with a visit at Christmas time or a special birthday. Spend time with them.